Let’s say I was a man. Being a man, if I walked out of my house tonight wearing boxers, most people would think it was funny. Sure, some people would be confused. Others would laugh, maybe give me some high-fives. In comedy movies, men in underpants is a punchline. But I’m not a man, and the sight of female flesh is almost never a punchline — at least, not so long as it fits our culture’s definition of what is sexually desirable. So if I were to walk outside my house in underpants and a bra, people wouldn’t think it [...click for more...]

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At first the sound seemed like screams of horror. Turn up the volume, furrow my brow, and it rang more clearly as shouts of joy. Then the tone rippled, and twisted, and shook out cries of confusion. Was Troy Davis alive? Was he dead? Was there a stay? Just a delay? Was he, as Mia Farrow said, really lying on the gurney with the IV in his arm when the United States Supreme Court issued the words that spun out his life just a little bit longer? The rumours spread and I, swayed by the cries of “stay” and the jubilant exclamations of NAACP leaders on Democracy Now’s live [...click for more...]

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After days of watching a Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist be grilled by lesser personalities — by journalists who will never come close enough to a Pulitzer to preen in its reflection — a thought. Last week, Jose Antonio Vargas published a passionate and frankly honest essay in the New York Times: My Life as An Undocumented Immigrant. It’s an important and courageous piece, and one that deserves to spur important dialogues about the diverse experience of the millions of people living and working in the United States without documentation, and what should be done to address that. But the media (oh [...click for more...]

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This post is a week late, but: Pride. Last Sunday, we had a beautiful Pride. Against the forecast, the two umbrellas in my purse became useless artifacts when the sun burst forth and The Forks came alive. Not too hot, not too cool: we had a lovely afternoon with many friends and some fine pina coladas.  It was my tenth anniversary of attending Winnipeg’s main Pride celebration; I haven’t missed a year since the first I went. I also haven’t missed the same debate, every year, in various corners of the Internet: I’m not homophobic but some people were dressed indecently! I am [...click for more...]

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There are gasps going around Twitter about the shellacking that Sun TV anchor Krista Erickson has been getting on her Facebook page, after a particularly “combative” interview with Canadian dance icon Margie Gillis. You can watch the interview here. (Or just listen: for some reason, I’m only getting the audio, but the audio is enough.) The crux of the issue: after praising Gillis for her achievements, Erickson took the dancer to task over government funding of the arts. I find it strange that Gillis was given the tremendously uncomfortable job of speaking for a vast series of diverse and distinct arts communities who receive federal [...click for more...]

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Here’s a question, to which I honestly don’t know the answer, and am hoping someone else does: Do judges get any education whatsoever in the psychology of survivors? I ask this because, sadly, the Dewar file appears to be the gift that keeps on giving. When I read that story last night at work, my initial response was along the lines of 1) bang head against desk, and 2) ask the question I just asked above, to nobody in particular. Let’s set aside the particulars of that case, with which I am not familiar enough to comment. And let’s set aside the verdict. Instead, [...click for more...]

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Dear Queen’s Bench Justice V. Timblamer:* Good afternoon! I’m writing to thank you for your recent sentencing decision in the case of convicted rapist Kenneth Rhodes. Everyone’s talking about it!  As the owner of not one, but several orifices that are capable of being sexually penetrated against my will, it is very important for me to know that the severity of a violent crime committed against my body is largely dependent on whether or not I was sending out signals that “sex was in the air.” In fact, until I had read your decision, it had never even occured to me that [...click for more...]

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Part of the ethical problem I referred to in the last post is that I cannot columnize here on anything I might be called upon to report in the future. Being assigned as a GA — the garburator of the daily news world, or perhaps the meatloaf – that eliminates quite a lot of things. (Next blog motto: meatloaf of the news world.) It may not matter anyway, since there’s more than enough people saying smart things about The Isshoos in Winnipeg; I’m not sure I can bring anything to that table, other than sarcastic quips. And now that I think about it, there’s more than enough [...click for more...]

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